How to become a better mom?

You like your children also are learning. The moment you become a mom, you're still the same person with or without rearing experience. Then you think that because they are old and have lived much longer, have more knowledge, you're right!, But it is a mutual learning: they are learning to be your children and you are also learning to be his mom.

Children do not belong to anyone, they belong to the world. I mean, they need their freedom to learn and to cope with life. It can then keep them subdued, no say and not going out to play (depending on the stage of life who are realized), since in most cases, according to the personality of each one can take some aggressive behaviors .

"You will not understand now, but when you're older." We all have always said these words, and although at times it was inappropriate for small to know the "whole truth" about certain things, if you have the obligation to explain everything we asked, but with an answer to their level. If you do not, someone else will and perhaps not the most appropriate way.

Ideally, your children should not be spectators of fights or arguments. Better to keep outside situations that how are you not sure if they can understand and negatively affected.

The "good" and "evil. It is normal for families living in situations" around a bit, "but they need to since they know little difference between what" good "and" bad ", but the way most appropriate.

Not prevent them from "flying". The psychology tells us that: Children are like a kite: let them fly free with a big enough thread to guide them. Give them wings to fly, but also roots, so you never forget your home.